{"id":131732,"date":"2024-11-05T13:42:35","date_gmt":"2024-11-05T11:42:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bas-tv.md\/?p=131732"},"modified":"2024-11-05T13:42:15","modified_gmt":"2024-11-05T11:42:15","slug":"sacrificiul-tacut-cand-femeile-suporta-violenta-pentru-a-pastra-familia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bas-tv.md\/ro\/sacrificiul-tacut-cand-femeile-suporta-violenta-pentru-a-pastra-familia\/","title":{"rendered":"Sacrificiul t\u0103cut. C\u00e2nd femeile suport\u0103 violen\u021ba pentru a p\u0103stra familia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Violen\u021ba \u00eempotriva femeii a devenit una dintre cele mai \u00eent\u00e2lnite \u00eenc\u0103lc\u0103ri ale drepturilor omului. Multe femei nu \u0219tiu c\u0103 li se \u00eencalc\u0103 dreptul la o via\u021b\u0103 \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i pace, astfel se \u00eempac\u0103 cu violen\u021ba \u00een famiilie de dragul copiilor, se sacrific\u0103 pentru a oferi copiilor o cas\u0103 \u0219i o familie complet\u0103.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dac\u0103 sunt normale sau nu astfel de cazuri, am \u00eentrebat psihologul Svetlana Lupu.<\/p>\n

– Dac\u0103 e s\u0103 \u00eencep nemijlocit de la intrebarea propriu-zis\u0103, atunci a\u0219 spune c\u0103 nu e normal. Tot ce face s\u0103 ne sim\u021bim \u00een suferin\u021b\u0103 nu e o norm\u0103. Noi am venit s\u0103 experiment\u0103m fericirea, starea de bine \u0219i s\u0103 cre\u0103m lucruri frumoase pentru a ne sim\u021bi utili. Iar violen\u021ba\u00a0 aduce mult\u0103 suferin\u021b\u0103, submineaz\u0103 entuziasmul cre\u0103rii \u0219i sim\u021bul propriei valori. C\u00e2\u021biva ani la r\u00e2nd am valorificat acest domeniu, oferind suport victimelor violen\u021bei \u00een familie \u0219i mi-am r\u0103spuns la multe \u00eentreb\u0103ri, referitor la acest subiect.<\/p>\n

Ave\u021bi dreptate, violen\u021ba e \u00eentr-adev\u0103r o \u00eenc\u0103lcare a drepturilor femeii sau a altei persoane care este victima acestui fenomen, dar dac\u0103 e s\u0103 ne referim doar la violen\u021ba \u00een familie, am observat c\u0103, de fapt, \u00een majoritatea cazurilor, victima nici nu con\u0219tientizeaz\u0103 acest fapt. \u00cen deosebi acele persoane, de obicei femeile, fiindc\u0103 de\u021bin o putere fizic\u0103 sc\u0103zut\u0103 pentru a se ap\u0103ra sau a opune rezisten\u021b\u0103, care au fost educate \u00een familii disfunc\u021bionale, unde \u00een mica copil\u0103rie au urm\u0103rit scene \u00een care tata aplica violen\u021b\u0103 fie fizic\u0103, fie psihologic\u0103 asupra mamei, acest fapt, de obicei era perceput ca un fenomen firesc, deoarece copiii p\u00e2n\u0103 la o anumit\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103 nu au conectat criticul interior \u0219i nu au capacitatea de a da apreciere. Din acest motiv, la \u00eenceput victimele consider\u0103 ac\u021biunile agresive din partea partenerului un fapt nepl\u0103cut dar inevitabil \u00een via\u021ba de familie. \u0218i procedeaz\u0103 exact cum au v\u0103zut c\u0103 proceda mama: rabd\u0103 pentru un scop nobil: s\u0103 p\u0103streze familia de dragul copiilor. De\u0219i beneficiul acestui sacrificiu este foarte discutabil.<\/p>\n

– De ce femeia ascunde durerea care-i afecteaz\u0103 at\u00e2t s\u0103n\u0103tatea fizic\u0103, c\u00e2t \u0219i ces mental\u0103?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– De ce femeile procedeaz\u0103 astfel, nu se poate de r\u0103spuns \u00een c\u00e2teva cuvinte, fiindc\u0103, \u00een fiecare caz concret, r\u0103spunsul e foarte individual. Dar comun sunt una sau c\u00e2teva emo\u021bii, pe care le tr\u0103ie\u0219te fiecare dintre noi \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 doz\u0103 \u0219i care ne determin\u0103 la luarea deciziilor: frica, ru\u0219inea \u0219i sim\u021bul vinei. A rupe o rela\u021bie toxic\u0103, e o responsabilitate fa\u021b\u0103 de sine \u0219i fa\u021b\u0103 de copii, pe care nu fiecare poate s\u0103 \u0219i-o asume. Deseori ne confrunt\u0103m cu frica atunci c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 facem careva schimb\u0103ri, fiindc\u0103 nu \u0219tim unde vor duce schimb\u0103rile. Mereu apare frica: Dar dac\u0103 nu va merge bine? Exact cu asta se confrunt\u0103 persoana victim\u0103, \u00een deosebi dac\u0103 \u00een familie sunt copii mici, dac\u0103 persoana e dependent\u0103 financiar de agresor, dac\u0103 nu are o locuin\u021b\u0103. Ru\u0219inea de asemenea este un factor determinant, fiindc\u0103 una din nevoile de baz\u0103 este s\u0103 fim accepta\u021bi de societate, de apropia\u021bi \u0219i este o vorb\u0103 la noi: \u201eE o ru\u0219ine s\u0103 sco\u021bi gunoiul din cas\u0103\u201d. Pentru a nu pierde opinia public\u0103 deja existent\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de o anumit\u0103 persoan\u0103, ea se str\u0103duie s\u0103 p\u0103streze legenda care a creat aceast\u0103 opinie, iar recunosc\u00e2nd c\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bia ei lucrurile stau nu tocmai bine, \u00eenseamn\u0103 a schimba atutudinea societ\u0103\u021bii, deseori \u00een defavoarea femeii. \u0218i un alt factor, care o face pe victim\u0103 s\u0103 ezite, este sim\u021bul vinei, deseori \u00eenso\u021bit de g\u00e2ndul: \u201eCred c\u0103 e \u0219i vina mea\u201d.<\/p>\n

Astfel, femeia\u00a0 supus\u0103 violen\u021bei ani la r\u00e2nd suport\u00e2nd \u00een tain\u0103 violen\u021ba \u00eempotriva ei, \u00eencepe s\u0103 simt\u0103 probleme de s\u0103n\u0103tate, fiindc\u0103 frica, ru\u0219inea \u0219i vinov\u0103\u021bia tr\u0103ite continuu, f\u0103r\u0103 curajul de a face schimb\u0103ri sau f\u0103r\u0103 speran\u021ba de a fi sus\u021binut\u0103 de cineva, provoac\u0103 schimb\u0103ri distructive \u00een corpul fizic.<\/p>\n

– Care sunt urm\u0103rile asupra copiilor care v\u0103d violen\u021b\u0103 \u00een familie? Ce schimb\u0103ri se produc la ei?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Dup\u0103 cum s-a men\u021bionat anterior c\u0103, femeile, indiferent de suferin\u021bele pe care le suport\u0103 \u00een urma violen\u021bei la care e supus\u0103, p\u0103streaz\u0103 familia de dragul copiilor, e o inten\u021bie fals\u0103. Desigur, educa\u021bia copiilor \u00een familie complet\u0103 e fireasc\u0103 \u0219i dezvolt\u0103 acele competen\u021be de via\u021b\u0103, care sunt necesare pentru a crea ulterior propria familie, dar dac\u0103 e vorba de educarea \u00eentr-o familie disfunc\u021bional\u0103, aceasta aduce doar pagube psihicului copilului. \u00cen majoritatea cazurilor feti\u021bele vor prelua modelul mamei-victime \u0219i vor experimenta acest rol \u00een via\u021ba lor de familie, b\u0103ie\u021bii vor mo\u0219teni modelul tat\u0103lui \u0219i vor considera un fapt firesc s\u0103 se comporte agresiv cu partenera de via\u021b\u0103. Acest adev\u0103r mi-a fost confirmat \u00een majoritatea cazurilor investigate. Colabor\u00e2nd c\u00e2\u021biva ani cu inspectoratele de poli\u021bie din raioanele Ocni\u021ba, Edine\u021b \u0219i Briceni, am evaluat sute de femei care au solicitat protec\u021bie din partea organelor de drept \u0219i prin metoda biografic\u0103 constatam c\u0103 la baza rela\u021biilor toxice, de obicei, st\u0103 modelul de acas\u0103.<\/p>\n

– Cum e femeia care suport\u0103 violen\u021ba \u00een familie? Poate fi recunoscut\u0103 din mul\u021bime sau nu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Nu \u00eentotdeauna putem identifica dintr-o privire femeia victim\u0103 a violen\u021bei \u00een familie. Desigur, dac\u0103 e vorba de violen\u021b\u0103 fizic\u0103, atunci se observ\u0103 uneori urmele de lovituri, dar violen\u021ba are mai multe fe\u021be: psihologic\u0103, economic\u0103, sexual\u0103, spiritual\u0103. \u00cen astfel de situa\u021bii majoritatea femeilor nici nu con\u0219tientizeaz\u0103 c\u0103 sunt victime. \u00cen multe familii sunt conflicte \u00een care un partener ini\u021biaz\u0103 scene de gelozie, verific\u0103 contactele \u0219i coresponden\u021ba, impune interdic\u021bii, interzice anumite ac\u021biuni, controleaz\u0103 \u0219i interzice anumite cheltuieli necesare, for\u021beaz\u0103 la raport sexual, interzice sau for\u021beaz\u0103 referitor la anumite convingeri religioase, umile\u0219te, insult\u0103. Toate acestea creaz\u0103 suferin\u021b\u0103, toate sunt definite ca forme de violen\u021b\u0103, dar spre regret \u00een majoritatea cazurilor aceste ac\u021biuni sunt considerate obi\u0219nuite, tradi\u021bionale \u0219i persoana supus\u0103 acestor forme de violen\u021b\u0103 conecteaz\u0103 mecanisme adaptative de negare \u0219i g\u0103se\u0219te \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bire persoanei agresor, c\u0103 le face din prea mult\u0103 iubire, grij\u0103 fa\u021b\u0103 de partener \u0219i deseori din vina victimei. Dac\u0103 am face un sondaj public, am descoperi un num\u0103r impun\u0103tor de persoane care trec prin astfel de experien\u021be, dar care nu se consider\u0103 victime \u0219i tr\u0103iesc lini\u0219tite \u0219i aproape fericite, de la caz la caz..<\/p>\n

– Ea are \u0219ansa de a fi fericit\u0103 cu persoana care a agresat-o, dup\u0103 ce \u00eei promite c\u0103 astfel de lucruri nu se vor mai \u00eent\u00e2mpla?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– De fapt asta \u0219i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. \u00cen literatura de specialitate este ilustrat un algoritm al violen\u021bei, \u00een care se descrie cum imediat dup\u0103 aplicarea violen\u021bei \u0219i eliberarea tensiunii agresive, de obicei agresorul simte repulsii, \u00ee\u0219i cere iertare, ofer\u0103 flori, cadouri, \u00eencepe din nou un fel de \u201elun\u0103 de miere\u201d, victima dup\u0103 perioada stresant\u0103 \u0219i de suferin\u021b\u0103, simte nevoia de c\u0103ldur\u0103, de acceptare \u0219i, de obicei accept\u0103 toate acestea din partea agresorului, cu speran\u021ba c\u0103 el a con\u0219tientizat, a regretat \u0219i s-a schimbat. Dar spre regret, peste un anumit timp toate vor lua de la \u00eenceput. Se va \u00eente\u021bi tensiunea agresiv\u0103, vor porni furtuni r\u0103zle\u021be dup\u0103 care se va ajunge la apogeul dezl\u0103n\u021buirii furiei prin ac\u021biuni violente. \u0218i toate acestea se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 nu din motivul c\u0103 au ap\u0103rut motive sau careva sitia\u021bii responsabile de aceast\u0103 tensiune. Acesta este un mecanism care func\u021bioneaz\u0103 \u00een interiorul agresorului \u0219i a acestei rela\u021bii.<\/p>\n

– Ce ar trebui s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 aceast\u0103 femeie?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– \u00cen asemenea cazuri femeia-victim\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 toate au pornit nu din vina ei \u0219i nu are rost s\u0103 \u00eencerce s\u0103 aduc\u0103 argumente, explica\u021bii, \u00eendrept\u0103\u021biri, asta poate s\u0103-l incite pe agresor \u0219i mai mult. \u00cen asemenea cazuri trebuie s\u0103 \u00eentreprind\u0103 ac\u021biuni de protec\u021bie pentru sine \u0219i pentru copii. \u0218i desigur trebuie s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 aceste situa\u021bii se vor repeta, de aceea trebuie s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 \u00eentrebarea: \u201eSunt eu preg\u0103tit\u0103 ca toat\u0103 via\u021ba\u00a0 s\u0103 fiu tratat\u0103 astfel?\u201d Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e \u201eNU\u201d, atunci imediat trebuie s\u0103 ia decizii, p\u00e2n\u0103 nu va fi demoralizat\u0103 la maximum \u0219i va fi lipsit\u0103 de voin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 mai \u00eentreprind\u0103 ceva. Dac\u0103 r\u0103spunsul e \u201eDA\u201d, atunci femeia are nevoie de un specialist care s-o ajute s\u0103 deconecteze \u00een interiorul ei programa de victim\u0103, adic\u0103 s\u0103 vindece traumele care r\u0103spuns de starea ei actual\u0103.<\/p>\n

Cea mai mare gre\u0219eal\u0103 comis\u0103 de femeile victime e c\u0103 ele consider\u0103 c\u0103 persoana agresor se va schimba. Spre regret, nimeni nu se schimb\u0103 la dorin\u021ba noastr\u0103. Femeia trebuie s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 dac\u0103 partenerul e violent, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 exist\u0103 motive, care \u00ee\u0219i au origine \u00een individualitatea lui, de aceea schimbarea vine de la el, nu doar din dorin\u021ba victimei.<\/p>\n

– De ce un b\u0103rbat devine violent \u00een familie?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Dac\u0103 privim acest fenomen doar \u00een aspect \u00eengust, investig\u00e2nd cazul doar ca o rela\u021bie a unui cuplu, care vine \u00een aceast\u0103 rela\u021bie cu anumite modele, convingeri, atitudini, \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 vom atribui responsabilitatea acestor factori \u0219i putem spune c\u0103 b\u0103rbatul a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 devin\u0103 violent de la familia de origine, de la societate, de la cultura \u00een care s-a educat. Dar privind lucrurile \u00eentr-un spectru mai larg, s\u0103 zicem un pic filosofic, atunci va trebui s\u0103 lu\u0103m acest fenomen \u00een complex, adic\u0103 violen\u021ba este o moned\u0103 cu 2 fe\u021be, dintre care o fa\u021b\u0103 e agresorul \u0219i cealalt\u0103 e victima. Nu poate exista unul f\u0103r\u0103 cel\u0103lalt. Dac\u0103 vrem s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem de ce sunt \u00een rela\u021bie cu un agresor, atunci trebuie s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eentreb de ce sunt eu victim\u0103. Eu l-am ales ca s\u0103-mi arate asta. \u0218i el m-a ales ca s\u0103 se poate manifesta astfel. Ambii au nevoie de con\u0219tientizare \u0219i vindecare psihologic\u0103. \u0218i dac\u0103 apel\u0103m la triunghil lui Karpman, atunci descoperim c\u0103 nimeni dintre noi nu e pur victim\u0103 sau pur agresor, fiecare dintre noi trecem prin rolurile de agresor (persecutor), victim\u0103 \u0219i salvator. Adic\u0103, fiecare agresor e \u0219i victim\u0103. Important e s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem unde e bariera de trecere dintr-o stare \u00een alta, care sunt factorii interni care determin\u0103 agresorul s\u0103 simt\u0103 nevoia de a conecta acest mecanism de ap\u0103rare care e agresivitate. Fiindc\u0103 orice entitate, nimerind \u00een pericol \u0219i sim\u021bind nevoia de a se ap\u0103ra, aplic\u0103 agresivitate \u00eentr-o anumit\u0103 form\u0103. \u0218i asta nu e doar \u00een familie.<\/p>\n

Deseori\u00a0 \u0219eful \u021bip\u0103 la subaltern, la \u0219coal\u0103 profesorul strig\u0103 la elev… De ce o fac? Dintr-o fric\u0103, din nevoia de a se proteja s\u0103 nu fie victim\u0103, atac\u0103 \u0219i devine agresor. De unde vine aceast\u0103 fric\u0103? Dintr-o experien\u021b\u0103 c\u00e2nd s-a sim\u021bit victim\u0103.<\/p>\n

– Ce ascunde \u00een subcon\u0219tient, acel b\u0103rbat care love\u0219te femeia de l\u00e2ng\u0103 el, mama copiilor, dup\u0103 care-i cer\u0219e\u0219te iubirea?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Da, subcon\u0219tientul e un depozit cu tot ce poate s\u0103 existe. Subcon\u0219tientul le \u0219tie pe toate, el cunoa\u0219te de ce agresorul love\u0219te, de ce umile\u0219te victima, de ce victima accept\u0103 sau opune rezisten\u021b\u0103. \u0218i la fiecare este individual. Cineva a spus c\u0103 dac\u0103 omul ar con\u0219tientiza tot ce se afl\u0103 \u00een subcon\u0219tient, ar deveni ve\u0219nic. Aceasta \u0219i este, de fapt, vindecarea, ca persoana s\u0103 con\u0219tientizeze de ce procedeaz\u0103, de ce simte \u00eentr-un anumit fel. La \u00eenceput fiecare are nevoie de un ghid specialist, care s\u0103 \u00eendrumeze cum s\u0103 explor\u0103m subcon\u0219tientul. Mai apoi asta intr\u0103 \u00een obi\u0219nuin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i fiecare devine ghidul s\u0103u personal. Important e persoana s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 c\u0103 are nevoie de aceast\u0103 transformare. Aici cu for\u021ba nu poate fi adus nimeni.<\/p>\n

\u00a0– Cum poate fi evitat, stopat acest fenomen?<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Se fac multe pentru rezolvarea acestei probleme. Un instrument oferit de stat este Legea 45 cu privire la prevenirea \u0219i combaterea violen\u021bei \u00een familie. Dar acest instrument doar opre\u0219te \u00eens\u0103 nu \u00eenl\u0103tur\u0103. Sanc\u021biunile motiveaz\u0103, schimb\u0103 comportamentul pentru o perioad\u0103, dar \u00eens\u0103\u0219i fenomenul tr\u0103ie\u0219te \u00een fiecare dintre noi. E necesar\u0103 transformarea individual\u0103 care s\u0103 \u00eenceap\u0103 din \u0219coal\u0103 printr-o disciplin\u0103 obligatorie \u0219i care s\u0103 fie promovat\u0103 de un specialist \u00een materie. Dac\u0103 copiii vor con\u0219tientiza \u0219i vor \u00een\u021belege fenomenele care se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een familie, \u00een propria persoan\u0103, vor vindeca modelele distructive \u00eenc\u0103 din copil\u0103rie \u0219i vor intra \u00een via\u021ba adult\u0103 con\u0219tien\u021bi. Doar astfel nu vor repeta modelele p\u0103rin\u021bilor, vor lua sub control propriile traume, pentru a proiecta pe alte persoane emo\u021biile reprimate.<\/p>\n

–\u00a0 Recomandarea Dvs.<\/strong><\/p>\n

– Recomandarea mea la general este ca pentru tot ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u00een via\u021ba noastr\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 ne asum\u0103m responsabilitate \u0219i s\u0103 nu a\u0219tept\u0103m c\u0103 poate cineva se va schimba de dragul nostru, c\u0103 poate lucrurile se vor schimba de la sine. Este necesar s\u0103 ne valorific\u0103m. Noi to\u021bi venim \u00een via\u021ba adult\u0103 modela\u021bi cumva de adul\u021bii care s-au implicat \u00een educa\u021bia noastr\u0103. Fiecare a pus \u00een noi propriile probleme, imperfec\u021biuni, traume, a\u0219tept\u0103ri\u2026 Acum, devenind persoane adulte ne putem evalua \u0219i da o apreciere, nu pentru a judeca \u0219i \u00eenvinui, ci pentru a corecta, modifica astfel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 fim nu ceea ce a produs \u00eent\u00e2mplarea, dar ceea ce dorim s\u0103 fim cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n

A urma aceast\u0103 recomandare nu e un lucru imposibil, e complicat la \u00eenceput, dar dup\u0103 primul succes, entuziasmul cre\u0219te \u0219i transformarea devine o pasiune.<\/p>\n

Recomandarea mea referitor la subiectul discutat e acela\u0219i: asumarea responsabilit\u0103\u021bii. Dac\u0103 sunt victim\u0103, nu \u00eenvinuiesc \u0219i nu responsabilizez doar persoana agresor, dar \u00eencerc s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg de ce permit ca asta s\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mple \u00een via\u021ba mea. Multe femei dup\u0103 transformarea psihologic\u0103, descoper\u0103 \u00een sine resurse s\u0103-\u0219i schimbe via\u021ba astfel, \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu mai depind\u0103 de persoana agresor, devin independente, unele ies din rela\u021bia toxic\u0103. \u00cens\u0103 toate se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd persoana e preg\u0103tit\u0103 pentru astfel de schimb\u0103ri. De aceea, \u00een unele cazuri, noi speciali\u0219tii, doar oferim suportul imediat de care are nevoie \u0219i o inform\u0103m despre oportunit\u0103\u021bile care exist\u0103, \u00eens\u0103 alegerea \u00eei apar\u021bine.<\/p>\n

Autor: Ludmila Podgurschii<\/p>\n

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